Dale Harbison Carnegie (18881955) was an American writer and lecturer. He was a pioneer in developing self-improvement courses. 戴尔卡内基 ( 1888-1955) 是美国作家及演说家，亦是人际关係教育的开拓者。
885. There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it. 中文 / Chinese：
我们跟世界接触的方式有四个方式，只有四个。我们被这四个接触的方式分类：我们做什麽，我们的外貌，我们的说话，我们怎样说话。
886. Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have. 中文 / Chinese：
为自己和现况感到怜悯，不单只浪费精力而且也许是你最坏的习惯。
887. Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves. 中文 / Chinese：
不要害怕做小事尽全力。每一次你克服它会令你变强。如果你做好小事，大事往往会自己做好。
888. Do the thing you fear to do and keep on doing it... that is the quickest and surest way ever yet discovered to conquer fear. 中文 / Chinese：
做你恐惧的事及不停的做 … 那是已知最快和最肯定的方式来克服恐惧。
889. Most of us have far more courage than we ever dreamed we possessed. 中文 / Chinese：
我们大多数都有比我们梦想中更多的勇气。
890. Speakers who talk about what life has taught them never fail to keep the attention of their listeners. 中文 / Chinese：
发言者谈及人生教训从不会失去聆听者的注意力。
603. I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interaction. The world will have a generation of idiots. 中文 / Chinese：
恐怕有一天科技会超越人类的互动。世界会出现新一代的白癡。
604. Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living. 中文 / Chinese：
做一个独来独往的人。那样你有时间去怀疑，去搜寻真理。拥有对神圣的好奇心。使你生命值得活著。
605. Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. 中文 / Chinese：
疯癫是反覆做同一件事情及预期不同的结果。
606. Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better. 中文 / Chinese：
深入探索大自然，你会更理解万物。
607. the most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious. It is the fundamental emotion that stands at the cradle of true art and true science. 中文 / Chinese：
我们能有最美丽的经验是神秘。它站在真正的艺术和科学的发源地。
608. Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore. 中文 / Chinese：
弱者报复。强者原谅。智者不理。
609. In matters of truth and justice, there is no difference between large and small problems, for issues concerning the treatment of people are all the same. 中文 / Chinese：
就真理和公义而论，处理人的问题是一样的，问题大小没有分别。
497. The person who seeks all their applause from outside has their happiness in another's keeping. 中文 / Chinese：
一个从外面寻找所有喝采的人，别人在保管著他的快乐。
498. When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and vanity. 中文 / Chinese：
当你与人交往，记著你不是和有逻辑性的生物交往，你是和充满歧视，以傲慢和虚荣为动力的生物交往。
499. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. 中文 / Chinese：
你花两个月，用对人有兴趣的态度去交朋友，会比较花两年，用令人对你有兴趣的态度去交朋友为多。
500. Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours. Dale Carnegie 中文 / Chinese：
你的人生闷吗？那麽寻找一样你相信可以为它而生，而死的工作，你会找到你认为从不属於你的快乐。
501. Your purpose is to make your audience see what you saw, hear what you heard, feel what you felt. Relevant detail, couched in concrete, colorful language, is the best way to recreate the incident as it happened and to picture it for the audience. 中文 / Chinese：
你的目的就是令你的观众见你所见，听你所听，感受你所感受。适当的细节，色彩的语言，是把事件为观众重演的最好方法。
502. Only the prepared speaker deserves to be confident. 中文 / Chinese：
信心是有準备的演讲者应得的。
16. Act as if you were already happy and that will tend to make you happy. 中文 / Chinese：
仿效开心的举动往往会令你快乐。
17. Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving. 中文 / Chinese：
任何蠢人都可以批评，谴责，投诉，但要做到明白，宽恕则需要有品格和自我克制。
18. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurt his sense of importance and arouses resentment. 中文 / Chinese：
批评是非常危险的，因为它会伤害到一个人珍贵的自尊心，损害一个人的重要性和激发起怨恨。
19. Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you. 中文 / Chinese：
不要害怕攻击你的敌人，害怕奉承你的朋友。
20. Fear not those who argue but those who dodge. 中文 / Chinese：
争吵的人不用怕，怕躲避你的人。
21. For better or worse, you must play your own instrument in the orchestra of life. 中文 / Chinese：
不论好坏，在人生的乐团中，你一定要弹奏你自己的乐器。
22. Only knowledge that is used sticks in your mind. 中文 / Chinese：
可以用到的学识才会牢记心中。
