Dale Harbison Carnegie (1888-1955) was an American writer and lecturer. He was a pioneer in developing self-improvement courses.
戴爾卡內基 (
1888-1955) 是美國作家及演說家，亦是人際關係教育的開拓者。
885. There are four ways, and only four ways, in which we have contact with the world. We are evaluated and classified by these four contacts: what we do, how we look, what we say, and how we say it. 中文 / Chinese：
我們跟世界接觸的方式有四個方式，只有四個。我們被這四個接觸的方式分類：我們做什麼，我們的外貌，我們的說話，我們怎樣說話。
886. Feeling sorry for yourself, and your present condition, is not only a waste of energy but the worst habit you could possibly have. 中文 / Chinese：
為自己和現況感到憐憫，不單只浪費精力而且也許是你最壞的習慣。
887. Don’t be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs. Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger. If you do the little jobs well, the big ones will tend to take care of themselves. 中文 / Chinese：
不要害怕做小事盡全力。每一次你克服它會令你變強。如果你做好小事，大事往往會自己做好。
888. Do the thing you fear to do and keep on doing it... that is the quickest and surest way ever yet discovered to conquer fear. 中文 / Chinese：
做你恐懼的事及不停的做 … 那是已知最快和最肯定的方式來克服恐懼。
889. Most of us have far more courage than we ever dreamed we possessed. 中文 / Chinese：
我們大多數都有比我們夢想中更多的勇氣。
890. Speakers who talk about what life has taught them never fail to keep the attention of their listeners. 中文 / Chinese：
發言者談及人生教訓從不會失去聆聽者的注意力。
603. I fear the day that technology will surpass our human interaction. The world will have a generation of idiots. 中文 / Chinese：
恐怕有一天科技會超越人類的互動。世界會出現新一代的白癡。
604. Be a loner. That gives you time to wonder, to search for the truth. Have holy curiosity. Make your life worth living. 中文 / Chinese：
做一個獨來獨往的人。那樣你有時間去懷疑，去搜尋真理。擁有對神聖的好奇心。使你生命值得活著。
605. Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. 中文 / Chinese：
瘋癲是反覆做同一件事情及預期不同的結果。
606. Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better. 中文 / Chinese：
深入探索大自然，你會更理解萬物。
607. the most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious. It is the fundamental emotion that stands at the cradle of true art and true science. 中文 / Chinese：
我們能有最美麗的經驗是神秘。它站在真正的藝術和科學的發源地。
608. Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore. 中文 / Chinese：
弱者報復。強者原諒。智者不理。
609. In matters of truth and justice, there is no difference between large and small problems, for issues concerning the treatment of people are all the same. 中文 / Chinese：
就真理和公義而論，處理人的問題是一樣的，問題大小沒有分別。
497. The person who seeks all their applause from outside has their happiness in another's keeping. 中文 / Chinese：
一個從外面尋找所有喝采的人，別人在保管著他的快樂。
498. When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but with creatures bristling with prejudice and motivated by pride and vanity. 中文 / Chinese：
當你與人交往，記著你不是和有邏輯性的生物交往，你是和充滿歧視，以傲慢和虛榮為動力的生物交往。
499. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you. 中文 / Chinese：
你花兩個月，用對人有興趣的態度去交朋友，會比較花兩年，用令人對你有興趣的態度去交朋友為多。
500. Are you bored with life? Then throw yourself into some work you believe in with all your heart, live for it, die for it, and you will find happiness that you had thought could never be yours. Dale Carnegie 中文 / Chinese：
你的人生悶嗎？那麼尋找一樣你相信可以為它而生，而死的工作，你會找到你認為從不屬於你的快樂。
501. Your purpose is to make your audience see what you saw, hear what you heard, feel what you felt. Relevant detail, couched in concrete, colorful language, is the best way to recreate the incident as it happened and to picture it for the audience. 中文 / Chinese：
你的目的就是令你的觀眾見你所見，聽你所聽，感受你所感受。適當的細節，色彩的語言，是把事件為觀眾重演的最好方法。
502. Only the prepared speaker deserves to be confident. 中文 / Chinese：
信心是有準備的演講者應得的。
16. Act as if you were already happy and that will tend to make you happy. 中文 / Chinese：
仿效開心的舉動往往會令你快樂。
17. Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving. 中文 / Chinese：
任何蠢人都可以批評，譴責，投訴，但要做到明白，寬恕則需要有品格和自我克制。
18. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurt his sense of importance and arouses resentment. 中文 / Chinese： 批評是非常危險的，因為它會傷害到一個人珍貴的自尊心，損害一個人的重要性和激發起怨恨。
19. Don't be afraid of enemies who attack you. Be afraid of the friends who flatter you. 中文 / Chinese：
不要害怕攻擊你的敵人，害怕奉承你的朋友。
20. Fear not those who argue but those who dodge. 中文 / Chinese： 爭吵的人不用怕，怕躲避你的人。
21. For better or worse, you must play your own instrument in the orchestra of life. 中文 / Chinese： 不論好壞，在人生的樂團中，你一定要彈奏你自己的樂器。
22. Only knowledge that is used sticks in your mind. 中文 / Chinese： 可以用到的學識才會牢記心中。
